The VA rated me disabled and they also asked that a rating of incompetency be granted. I’ve had a stroke and my wife pays are bills as I cannot write check, s but I also know we have to pay our bills and mortgage amount, other bills .. I’ve been granted 9 years back pay and now must wait . Sent letter from doctor stating they he felt I could handle my own affairs and I feel I can as my wife of 47 years go over our affairs and bills together. and I was stupid when asked, I said my wife pays the bills but didn’t say because I’m paralyzed on whole left side, though that they could see on their own.
You do not want VA to appoint a fiduciary! I want you to contact a veteran’s law attorney right away and will send you suggestions separately.